1 John 4:18a – “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear.”
This is a familiar verse to most of us, I’m sure, but what does it actually mean when it comes right down to it? How do we actually apply perfect love to a fearful situation?
In this podcast we will explore several different aspects of how to recognize perfect love in action versus when fear is in action.
First of all, love gets curious. WHen we are operating from a place of love, we have space to ask questions about what’s going on, and why someone perhaps sees something differently.
Fear on the other hand makes declarations. It’s decisive from a place of survival- which might keep you from dying, but isn’t always laced with wisdom.
Secondly, love is patient. We are about to talk a whole lot about patience during the month of March, but for now, let’s settle with the fact that when we come from a place of love, we can slow down, consider the entire scope, be consistent and thoughtful and make a choice that supports everyone more successfully.
Rushing through something is a product of fear, however and leads to mistakes, more pain, injury and poor results. You can easily identify when fear is at play if you feel chaotic in you mind, in a haphazard hurry, or you are confused and therefore just quickly trying to make something work.
Love is able to surrender, relax, and trust that God is still on his throne and in control. He loves our people far more than we do.
Fear grasps, holds on tightly, protects at all cost, and defends- even when defending isn’t really necessary.
The kicker is, BOTH ARE CONTAGIOUS! So, what are you spreading? What are you choosing to demonstrate to your family today? Which do you want them to emulate?
I hope you’ll enjoy this episode of the podcast and get at least 1 thing you can try this week to practice coming from a place of perfect love instead of fear.
Blessings!
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