Repentance Those Hurt by Church Leadership
Repentance is important, especially if you have been hurt by church leaders. I was away from the Church for a number of years because of the abuse I suffered at the hands of Church leadership. Maybe you or someone you love is in that same place in their walk. During that time, annual programs welcomed Catholics back to the Church. I felt that there was a step missing, that of acknowledging the hurt done by those in leadership. This is what we extend to you today.
If someone in Church leadership offended you, I am so sorry for your pain or abuse. Those in Church leadership have every bit as much of an ability to hurt people as anyone does. People are still people, no matter what title they hold. However, because of the roles they hold, those in leadership can wound us in the depths of our person, in the core of our spirituality. They are meant to represent the Lord, so it can almost make us feel like God abused us, as crazy as that may sound. Sometimes, even sacred art, music, and sacramentals can become triggering.
Repentance Heals
On behalf of the Church, Fr. David Tickerhoof and I acknowledge the pain and hurt you’ve endured and ask for your forgiveness. We don’t want you to remain separated anymore. No matter how little you might think you are, you are a crucial part of the Body of Christ, and we need you! No member of the human body is disposable, and nor are you. You are an essential member.
You actually have a special ability to minister to others who have experienced pain. I remember something the Lord told me at one point when I was suffering because of those in the Church. He said, “Everything you want from the Church, I want you to be that for the Church.” It immediately refocused me on the Good Shepherd rather than the sheep. Please return and extend that compassion you deserve to receive to those who are in the spot you were.
This Easter, we invite you to consider coming back to the Lord. It doesn’t mean the hurtful way you were treated is right or doesn’t matter. I invite you to think of that as our Good Father bringing you back into His House. He can restore. He does make ALL things new.
May the Lord give you peace!
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